Prenatal Counseling, Birth Hypnosis and bonding with your unborn child

I find that moms and Dads enjoy bonding with their baby more when they know just a little bit about what it is like inside the womb! These two articles give food for thought to bonding with your baby and with each other before birth ….and addressing anxieties which come up that impact labor……

Tips for Bonding with Your Unborn Child

Body Centered Hypnosis for Childbirth
“Medical research has shown that fear can affect labor by decreasing blood levels of oxytocin. My prenatal counseling program incorporates body-centered hypnosis and techniques for coping which allow a woman to anticipate her physical and emotional response to labor, to master her fear, thus allowing a greater potential for a smooth, uncomplicated childbirth…” from An Easier Childbirth. Read the entire article.

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Dealing with Conflict: Have Healthy Discussions with your Spouse

The brief article below introduces family research on how to communicate with your partner under pressure. If you follow the links at the bottom, you will be able to identify what your blind spots are and how to change patterns so that conflict brings you together rather than apart. Have fun! More free seminars and articles can be found at www.makinghealthyfamilies.com

“Conflicts are not only inevitable in the natural course of family life, but they are necessary for growth.”

It is the way we express ourselves and listen to our partners (and children) that determines our capacity to successfully negotiate with our loved ones when conflicts arise. Skillful communication prevents misunderstandings and keeps your partner apprised to the emotional changes and development that happens on quiet levels inside each of us every day.

But with busy schedules, it is often difficult to carve out enough time for the discussions we need to have together as a couple to resolve problems, much less to keep each other informed about our changing perceptions, experiences and growth! So it is inevitable that we sometimes depend upon “heated” discussions with our partners to inform us about what is going on inside.

We all have the ability to destroy our relationships. No one is immune to destructive patterns of communicating when under stress and we all use them at some time. The key to health is not perfect communication, but an awareness of when we express ourselves in destructive ways and what patterns each of us have a tendency to “default” to in times of stress.

It is our ability to communicate effectively under pressure that will make the difference in our lives and relationships. In order to increase our tools for communicating more effectively, we must take an honest look at our own discussion-busters.

Go to: Identifying Your Discussion-Busters